Burbank · Narcissistic Abuse Recovery
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery in Burbank, CA
For the person who left and still cannot tell whether they were mistreated or simply too sensitive.
Book a free consultFormat
There is no office in Burbank.
We meet over secure video, or in person at my Pasadena office if you would rather be in a room. Video also happens to be discreet, which matters more than people admit when the person you are recovering from still calls.
The Bosses Version
Sometimes the relationship was a job.
Not all of this happens in romance. Burbank produces a very particular flavor of harm: the mentor who made you and can unmake you, the showrunner whose approval reorganized your entire sense of self, the department head everyone warned you about in a whisper. Contract work concentrates the power imbalance, because the person mistreating you is also your reference.
Whatever the setting, the aftermath rhymes. You second-guess your memory, you over-explain in writing, and you feel physically ill when someone says we need to talk. Manipulation is not a clinical diagnosis I hand out from a distance. It is a description of what a pattern did to you, and that part I take seriously.
- You archive emails as evidence for a trial that will never happen.
- Praise from them reset your whole nervous system, which is why leaving took so long.
- You apologize preemptively, including to people who have done nothing.
- Friends say you seem lighter now and you cannot feel it yet.
Recovery
Rebuilding the instrument you use to judge reality.
The first stretch is usually about trusting your own read again. Then we work on the moments that still detonate, often with EMDR, and on the reflexes that followed you out: the flinch, the over-apologizing, the reflex to manage other people's moods before they have one.
Contact may not be fully severable, especially professionally. If that is your situation, we work on what changes anyway, which is more than you would expect.
Practical Details
Fees, license, and safety.
Sessions are $225 for 50 minutes and intensives are $2,300. Out of network with superbills. No published sliding scale. Everything begins with a free 10-minute call.
Alexa Aversano, LMFT, California license 140766, California only. I do not treat severe mental illness or psychotic disorders. If you are in immediate danger call 911, and for crisis support call or text 988 or go to the nearest emergency room.
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